I normally write posts dedicated to helping people with their sobriety journey but sober or not, we’ve all dealt with some form of energetic attacks. Sometimes it’s in the form of smear campaigns and flying monkeys. Other times, some people are depraved enough to place hexes on us.
Whichever you’re dealing with, this releasing ritual is going to help you purge all the energy that isn’t yours. And actually, some of your own energy as a result of what was done to you. I’ll explain how you can do this later on.
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It’s so easy to freak out when someone’s attacking our energy, with good reason. But don’t panic. Now that I said it, you may be panicking. There really isn’t anything to worry about. Because you can control this energy. You are that powerful.
Look at it this way- they are scared sh!tless of your power. That’s why they came for your energy and didn’t have the balls to say or do anything to your face. It’s cowardly depravity.
Also, the more you think you’re being hexed, the stronger it actually becomes because your belief is so focused on what’s going wrong in your life and who’s out to get you. When it leads to paranoia, you won’t trust yourself enough to push forward. You’ll just stay stuck.
Remember, it’s just energy. And it was never yours to begin with. So affirm to yourself that this is someone else’s energy. It helps to bring you some peace of mind.
On a side note- if you prefer to have a removal professionally done, please be sure to find someone who’s reputable. Use your discernment and listen to your intuition. If something feels off, vibes don’t lie.
Ok- let’s help you to safely remove the evil eye and hexes. If you haven’t yet, grab a cup of coffee or tea, and get comfy.
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WHAT YOU’LL NEED:
- Black ritual candle
- Toothpick
- Fire proof bowl
- Rice, sand, or pebbles placed in the fire proof bowl
- Lighter
3 TYPES OF RELEASING:
- Imagine their energy going into the earth for the earth to absorb
- Transmute the energy (i.e. lack and scarcity to abundance and prosperity, hate to love, glamor spells- ugliness to beauty)
- Return to sender (it sends all the energy they sent to you back to them so please exercise caution with this)
HOW TO REMOVE EVIL EYE & HEXES
I prefer releasing rituals at night because we’re purging so much energy that it can really drain us. So, that’s something you want to keep in mind, especially if you’ve never done any type of energetic release before.
STEP 1
First, decide on what kind of releasing you want to do- you can see above on the 3 types of releasing.
STEP 2
Take the toothpick and carve the person’s name into your black ritual candle. You want to make sure it’s black because it protects and purifies. If you know you have attached energy that isn’t yours and don’t know who it’s from, you can carve “stagnant energy” or “other people’s energy” or “release what isn’t serving me” or “release what isn’t mine.”
STEP 3
Fill your fireproof bowl with sand, rice, pebbles, or dirt. Place the candle into the fireproof bowl and light it.
STEP 4
As the candle is burning (ritual candles usually take about an hour to an hour and half to burn), focus on who’s energy you want to release along with whatever emotions you’ve felt from it- anger, rage, frustration, pain, grief, etc.
This is a great time to purge your own emotions so take advantage of it. It also makes the ritual more powerful because you’re getting rid of your attachment to it.
Just a word of caution- if you’re going to do a return to sender, do NOT put the emotions you want to release into it. You’re opening yourself up to even more attacks because a return to sender is only what they sent you, not punitive damages. Let karma deal with that.
STEP 5
Keep an eye on the candle while it’s burning and occasionally repeating your intention along with the emotions you want to get rid of.
You can watch how the flame flickers, how quickly the candle is burning, the height of the flame, etc. to try and pick up on any signs you may need or want to know.
STEP 6
Do NOT extinguish the candle. Let it burn out on its own. If for any reason, the candle blows out on its own before it burns all the way down, it’s not the right time for the ritual. Come back when you’re in a better headspace to get rid of the energy. Listen to your intuition on when to come back.
STEP 7
Get rid of the candle and whatever you used in the fireproof bowl when the spell has ended- you can bury it in the ground or throw it out in the trash. Rinse off the candle to be on the safe side and if you’re throwing it in the trash, make sure you take it outside. In case there were any energies lingering around, you want to make sure it’s gone.
STEP 8
When you feel the effects of this releasing ritual working depends on what was done to you and how heavy it was. If you don’t feel any type of change within a couple of weeks, perform the ritual again. Sometimes the energies are so much that we have to go back to purge the residue.
I hope this helps you and if you’re feeling down, remember this- karma works both ways. You’ll get your restitution and they’ll get their reckoning. No one escapes karma, especially the ones who are arrogant enough to think they’re holier than God.
I’ll see you soon…in the meantime, love yourself so much that even a Hallmark Christmas movie would be jealous.
